Conformity Thoughts: Part 7

My Grandmother's Responses:


What is the biggest thing you have done that your parents didn't agree with based on their ideals?

I was raised in our home with very specific and clear ideals. After marrying

very young, I continued to live by the same ideals. I respected and admired my parents at all times. 

Do you regret doing it? Did you learn from the experience?
Although we never disagreed on basic ideals , I carried their  beliefs through my life trying to achieve the same values for my family and my community.


Where did your parents and grandparents come from? How do you think that affected your upbringing?
My father was born in the former Soviet Union and came to this country at a very young age. My mother was born in the United States. My grandparents were born in Europe and the FSU.


Did your parents expect certain things from you that you do not expect from your children?

 I think that my parents wanted to live the American life and the American dream.

They were aware of the persecution and difficulties elsewhere and wanted a safe and hopeful future for their own family. I expected the same values from my children. I must note that my father did not think a  college degree was as important for a woman as it was for a man. I fully expected all of my children and grandchildren to complete their college education.

What do you think has changed most about society since you were a teenager?
Communication has greatly changed society since I was a teenager.   


Do you think it's more beneficial to listen to your parents or listen to your instincts?
I think it is beneficial to listen to BOTH your parents and your own instincts.